McGrawville Express, McGrawville, NY, March 14, 1850
Deaths
At McGrawville [Cortland Co. NY], March 11th, Mr. Coman Cheats aged 20 years.
The death of this young man was very sudden and unexpected. On Friday he took his dinner as usual and went to his employment in the Mill. Late in the afternoon, Mr. Austin, his employer, found him insensible upon the floor. He was taken up and a physician immediately called. But no efforts to save his life were availing. He lingered in this unconscious state until Monday morning at 6 o'clock, when he expired.
All was done for him by the kind friends among whom he dwelt that could be done, and particularly by the family with whom he resided. An own son could not have called forth any more anxious solicitude and tender care, and for this the father repeatedly expressed his thanks and desired that some public testimonial might be given that he was not unmindful of the kindness and sympathy that he had received in his affliction and the interest and care taken of his dying son.
The affliction will be very severe to his family, as they reside some 30 or 40 miles distant. His father arrived on Saturday evening and remained with him until he died. But who can tell the feelings of that father as he pursues his lonely way with the body of his son to his anxious and afflicted family? or of that mother, and sisters, and brothers, when the lifeless remains of the son and brother arrive at their desolate abode. May God give them strength sufficient for their day.
With regard to the character of the young man, we have only to say that his disposition was amiable, kind and obliging, and he had gained in an unusual degree for a young man, the respect and confidence of the community in which he dwelt and endeared himself to those who knew him more intimately by his obliging and generous disposition.
As he was industrious, of a good business tact, enjoyed good health, and possessed a fine constitution, he looked forward to the future with hope and perhaps would have realized, as far as any are permitted to realize, the consummation of his earthly plans. But now suddenly the whole is changed and changed forever! Oh, what are our anticipations of future earthly good? What all our earthly plans? How suddenly may they be cut off! How soon perish!
"Oh how fleeting! Oh how cheating! / They're like the mists of wintry weather, / Gathered in an hour together, / And as soon dispersed forever."
It is to be observed that this is but one of a series of providences of this character in this neighborhood. Three young men, in as many months, within a mile and a half of each other, have thus suddenly fallen. And if we reckon years that are past, the providence is still more marked. Let me be permitted to ask this question affectionately of this numerous and interesting class or our population. Is there not some meaning in all this? Oh, today if you will hear His voice harden not your hearts. For while the Lord thus speaks from his throne, He speaks still invitingly from his word. For the spirit and the Bride say "come." And let him that is athirst "come." And whosever will let him take the water of life freely.
E.B. Fancher
______________________________
At Little York [Cortland Co. NY], March 4th, Mrs. Floretta Warner aged 24 years.
The deceased has been a great sufferer, especially for the last 4 or 5 months. During her painful hours she often remarked that she was ready and willing to leave this world of sorrow and pain for that where disease and anguish never enter. A few hours before her death, she seemed easy and remarked she thanked God that she could live a few moments free from pain. The funeral was held in the Presbyterian Church in Preble [Cortland Co. NY] and a very appropriate and interesting sermon by Mr. Ives, the Methodist minister of Preble Corners, was preached from Deut. 5, 29. She regretted that she had swerved away from duty and her manner of living had brought a wound on the cause of Christ. Yet, she felt that God for Christ's sake had forgiven her sins, and she was ready and willing to leave this world of pain and trouble and be with Christ which was far better. She leaves two children to wander through this unfriendly world, without a mother's watchful care, a mother's tears and empathy in the hour of trouble.
McGrawville Express, McGrawville, NY, March 28, 1850
Marriage
In Georgetown, Madison Co. [NY], March 5, 1850, by Rev. R. Persons, Mr. Benjamin Wesgate and Miss Betsey Crumb both of DeRuyter [Madison Co. NY].